Glam On October

 
Darling, it's a quote
 
Diana Rogo Outfit Post on DYROGUE

EN:

This is a so-called "look-post", you guessed it!

But I don't just want to show you where I bought my clothes, or how the weather was, when I wore them.

No. Because, 1. the whole outfit, I got from the same place ( Guess, Iulius Mall ), 2. the weather, I swear, could not be more perfect, judging by the sunset in the background of my pictures and 3. because I want to answer a question which usually remains unansered: why?

Why I dressed like that, and not otherwise.

Why is it worth it, to let your boyfriend waiting for another infinite 30minutes, until you're ready.

Why you deserve to be the one that steals all eyes, in a mass of grey people.

I have a belief, well rooted in my nature ..

RO:

Ai in fata un asa-numit "look-post", ai ghicit!

Insa nu vreau doar sa-ti arat de unde mi-am achizitionat hainele, sau cum a fost vremea cand le-am purtat.

Pentru ca, 1. toate sunt din acelas loc ( Guess, Iulius Mall ), 2.  vremea nu putea fi mai perfecta, judecand dupa apusul din fundalul pozelor, iar 3. pentru ca, vreau sa raspund unei intrebari, care obisnuieste sa nu primeasca un raspuns: de ce?

De ce m-am imbracat asa, si nu altfel.

De ce merita sa-ti lasi iubitul sa astepte, inca 30 minute lungi, pana esti gata aranjata.

De ce intr-o masa de oameni gri, merita sa fi tu aceea care fura toate privirile.

Eu am o credinta foarte bine inradacinata in firea mea..

 

that nothing that hurts more than ignorance. And - it's true.

It's a kind of power that we're all born with. We can make others feel dreadful, by just pretending that we've forgotten them. Remember how upset your ex was, when you didn't answer his eye contact? Or how hurt you felt, when your best friend forgot to call you back?

The deliberate part, we all know. We use it as a punishment for those who hurt us or as a sign of superiority, to mask our pain.

But what happens when we do it unintentionally? Involuntary. Naturally.

When walking down the street, passing by all sorts of people, who you already forget,the next step further. When no one draws your attention and they all seem the same. When there's boredom in the air and no one inspires.

It's sad. - That's what it is.

But you have no reason to indulge in such a world!

My best friend always tells me that I'm living in a pink bubble. - I always answer, that I love it here.

And what if I'm not grounded? I'm a dreamer, an idealist. And I truly believe, the world would be so much different, if we were all at least a little more daring. With higher aspirations and higher standards. To want more! To be more! Who's holding us back? Who dares to restrain us?

No one.

aceea ca nimic nu doare mai tare, decat ignoranta. Si - e adevarat.

E un fel de putere cu care ne-am nascut cu totii. Putem sa-i facem pe ceilalti sa se simta ingrozitor, doar prefacandu-ne ca i-am uitat. Mai stii ce s-a suparat ex-ul tau din tinerete, cand nu i-ai raspuns la priviri? Sau cum te-a durut cand prietena ta cea mai buna uita sa te sune inapoi?

Partea voluntara o stim toti. O folosim ca o pedeapsa pentru cei ce ne-au ranit sau ca un semn de superioritate, ca sa ne mascam suferinta.

Dar ce se intampla atunci cand o facem involuntar? Nestiut. Natural.

Cand mergem pe strada, trecand pe langa fel de fel de oameni, care-i uiti de-n data ce ai facut urmatorul pas. Atunci cand nu-ti atrage nimeni privirea si toti par la fel. Cand e un plictis in aer si ceilalti nu inspira.

E trist. - Asta e.

Si tu nu ai nici un motiv sa te complaci intr-o astfel de lume!

Prietena mea cea mai buna imi spune mereu ca traiesc intr-o bula roz. - Iar eu ii raspund de fiecare data, ca-mi place aici.

Si ce daca nu sunt cu picioarele pe pamant? Sunt o visatoare, o idealista. Si, chiar cred, ca lumea ar fi cu totul altfel daca am fi cu totii macar un pic mai indrazneti. Cu aspiratii mai mari si standarde mai inalte. Sa vrem mai mult! Sa fim mai mult! Cine ne tine? Cine-si permite sa ne tina inapoi?

Nimeni.

 

 

Diana Rogo wearing Guess

I like to wake up emotions. - The reason I started writing in the first place, and why I don't like wearing trivial clothes.

Now you're probably asking what "trivial" or "daring" mean from my point of view?

Exactly - in my point of view - is the part that matters. Your attitude is tied to the way you look at yourself.

And the characters you like to play,  are part of you. You empower them through your state of mind. But it also goes the other way around. You shouldn't let your mood swings run your life ( which, by the way, are mostly related to hormonal processes ) Because, only by changing external things, you can nurture confidence, too. ( Yes, you can alter the release of certain hormones, that make you happy, just by placing yourself in a material context, ex. taking a certain position, faking a smile, listening to a song or taking your all lace lingerie on. Voilá. You're already on the right track.)

If you leave the house and, while turning the key in the door, you're humming a catchy song, then put your sunglasses on and smile, because you know that today, is impossible to go wrong, then yes, this means to dare.

To feel good and to want to meet to as many people as possible. To get to know them, and them to know you.

To visit your lover in the middle of the day, at school or at work, just to give him a sample of your confidence. To captivated him all over again, to make him proud.

Or to meet your future boyfriend in line at the bank, or in traffic, or on a corridor somewhere, or in your favorite café and smile first. Because the poor guy is intimidated by your glow. Little does he know,  that in a few years, you'll be holding hands in front of the altar. He'll find out soon enough.

To get free coffee, as a gift from the barista who remembers your scent, since last time ..

Or to get priority in traffic, even when you're not even in a hurry,

Or to walk with your friend on the arm, and hear  proudly: "Everyone is looking at us .."

Just what I mean. What if you would go completely unnoticed? Not have anyone feel your presence, get walked over and forgotten, after just a few seconds after leaving the scene.

Mie-mi place sa trezesc emotii. - Motivul pentru care m-am apucat de scris, si motivul pentru care nu-mi place sa ma imbrac banal.

Acum te intrebi ce inseamna "banal" sau "indraznet" din punctul meu de vedere?

Exact - din punctul meu de vedere - e partea care conteaza. Atitudinea pe care o adopti tine de felul in care te privesti tu.

Iar personajele care ti le asumi, fac parte din tine. Tu le dai putere prin stare ta de spirit. Dar merge si invers. Nu trebuie sa te lasi condusa de toane ( care, apropo, sunt in mare legate de procese hormonale ) ci sa-ti schimbi singura atitudinea, dandu-ti incredere din lucruri exterioare. ( da, poti modifica eliberarea anumitor hormoni, care te fac fericit, doar plasandu-te intr-un context material, de ex. sa adopti o anumita pozitie, sa falsezi un zambet, sa asculti o piesa sau sa-ti iei lenjeria, stii tu care, cea doar din dantela, pe sub haine. Voilá. Deja esti pe drumul cel bun. )

Daca cand parasesti casa si intorci cheia in usa, o faci fredonand o piesa, iti pui ochelarii de soare si-ti vine sa zambesti, pentru ca stii, ca astazi, n-ai cum sa ai o zi proasta, atunci da, asta inseamna sa indraznesti.

Sa te simti bine si sa-ti doresti sa dai de cat mai multi oameni noi, sa-i cunosti, si sa te cunoasca.

Sa-ti cauti iubitul in mijlocul zilei la scoala sau la job, doar sa-i dai o mostra din increderea ta de azi, sa-l captivezi din nou, sa-l faci mandru.

Sau sa-ti intalnesti viitorul iubit la coada la banca, sau in trafic, sau pe un coridor undeva, sau la cafeneaua ta preferata si sa-i zambesti tu prima. Pentru ca el, bietul, e intimidat de alura ta, dar nu stie inca ca peste cativa ani, ve veti tine de mana in fata la altar. Va afla imediat.

Sa primesti cafele cadou de la barista-ul, care-ti tine minte parfumul de data trecuta..

Sau sa-ti acorde lumea prioritate in trafic, chiar si atunci cand nu te grabesti,

Sau sa te plimbi cu prietenul tau la brat, iar el sa-ti sopteasca mandru: "Toata lumea se uita la noi.."

Tocmai ce-ti spuneam. Cum ar fi daca nu s-ar uita nimeni? Sa nu ne simta nimeni prezenta, sa ne calce pe picioare si sa ne uite dupa cateva secunde, sau nici atat.

Diana Rogo Outfit Post on DYROGUE

I say that in today's world we can be anything and anyone we want.

And I, I want to walk into a room and leave a trail of confetti behind me. And when I leave, I want nothing else, than fireworks. I want to drink champagne in the middle of the day, wearing red lipstick since early in the morning. And when I watch old movies, with the last century's american glamor, I'll say "Yes!  This is how I'll dress tomorrow! This is how I'll do my hair today, and for my birthday, l'll host a masive party, inspired by the 20s'. Even the stars will be jealous!"

Why not?

I want to weat an extravagant fur coat and a tight skirt and heels. And I'll wear them with sunglasses. And I'll go shopping .. for myslef. - Because, consumer society or not, it makes me happy.

Why? - Because I want to walk down the street and have my whole posture screaming with confidence. I want my bag to carry my bottle of perfume, with a smell that no one will forget. And in my sunglasses, the gazes of all the grey people will reflect, and maybe tomorrow, they too will wear a color.

Eu zic ca in lumea de azi putem fi orice si oricine vrem noi.

Iar eu vreau sa intru intr-o incapere si sa las o dara de confetii, iar la plecare sa fie artificii. Sa beau sampanie in mijlocul zilei, sa port ruj rosu inca de dimineata. Iar cand ma uit la filme vechi, marcate de glamour-ul american a secolului trecut, sa pot spune: "Da! Maine asa ma imbrac! Astazi asa ma coafez, si de ziua mea, dam o petrecere inspirata din anii 20'. Pana si stelele vor fi geloase!"

De ce nu?

Vreau sa port o blana mare, si o fusta stramta, si tocuri. Si am sa-le port cu ochelari de soare. Si am sa ma duc la shopping.. pentru mine. - Pentru ca, societate de consum sau nu, pe mine ma face fericita.

De ce? - Pentru ca vreau sa umblu pe strada, iar toata postura mea sa urle a incredere. Vreau ca geanta sa-mi gazduiasca sticluta de parfum pe care sa n-o uite nimeni. Si vreau ca in ochelarii mei de soare, sa se oglindeasca privirile gri, ale oamenilor care, poate maine, vor purta si ei o culoare.


OUTFIT Details:

As I said, the whole outfit is from Guess.

I love to be dressed from head to toe in a single brand, because this way, I make sure my clothes are always perfectly combineable,  since they mostly have the same personality.

Thus, I wore my fur jacket, which, frankly, didn't leave me alone, every time I saw it in the shop's window, with a cashmere shirt, delicate, with a very seductive crack, held together with a gold button at the neckline.

The black stilettos, the classy handbag and glam sunglasses, with this skirt that highlights the female shape, I found browsing in the shop, right after I chose the oh-so-fancy fur.

In the dressing room I was inhealing the luxury of these pieces, and already dedciding my makeup for the first time I'll wear them.

Red lipstick. MAT. Statement.

Diana Rogo All Guess Outfit

Dupa cum va spuneam, toata tinuta este de la Guess.

Imi place sa fiu din cap pana-n picioare imbracata de la o singura firma, pentru ca hainele vor fi mereu perfect combinabile, avand in mare aceeasi personalitate.

Astfel, am combinat jacheta de blana, care, sincer, nu ma lasa in pace de fiecare data cand o vedeam in vitrina, cu o camasa din matase, delicata, cu o crapatura seducatoare, prinsa la baza gatului cu un nasturel auriu.

Pantofii stilettos negri, geanta si ochelarii, impreuna cu fusta onduita perfect sa scoata in evidenta formele feminine, le-am gasit imediat dupa ce am ales blanita.

La garderoba inspiram nota de lux a hainelor si-mi hotaram deja machiajul pentru prima purtare.

Ruj rosu. MAT. Statement.